Wish people would ask my side?

I am sure y'all have had this happen in your life also and I am sure it bothers you also.  It really bothers me when you starting hearing things from people that aren't true about you or something you said.  Then to really ad to my annoyance no one asks your side of it:(  I just wish people would ask my side when they have an issue.  I have really been working on this myself that you need to hear both sides before you can judge.  I have found in the last year that a lot of times when I finally asked the person on the other side I found out that I was wrong to judge them and to not ask them their side.  That even people I loved and trusted didn't tell me everything or the truth.  And I have also found that the person was exactly what someone else said but atleast I knew for myself and could support the person that was hurt in a better way.
 
It is just easy to sit back and judge and take someones word for it but sometimes you don't know that person well enough to know if that word is any good.  I am just really trying to learn from my mistakes and to be less judgmental.  That doesn't mean I will be naive or silly but I am learning to be friendly but more cautious.  I tend to trust people to quick and to much!  I am a person that if I consider you a friend that is that I will be there if you need me, that I trust you, that if there is an issue I will ask you what is going on, and I don't take being a "friend" lightly:)

I know our world isn't perfect and that there will be heartbreaks along the way.  But I want to avoid being the one that does that to others along the way.  I want to try and be the best person that I can be.  I am just very sensitive to how others feel about me.  I need to learn not to be sooooooo sensitive but not to be cold either.  You can't change what others do or think and I need to accept that sometimes but I don't like it when people think things that aren't true about me or think I am a person I am not.  I am an open book you wanna know I will tell you!!! The good, the bad and the ugly.
 
 

Meet Dock Holliday!!!

Well my husband who works so hard for us and never really asks for anything has wanted a boat to go fishing in the near by lakes.  He loves to fish and he has wanted a boat forever.  So this weekend we found a boat:)  It isn't real fancy and it is just for fishing but it is a cute little boat and perfect for a first boat.  Then we wanted to come up with a fun name and it became "DOCK HOLLIDAY"  We will put his name on it and some cards and six shooters:)  So here are a few pics of "DOC" and today was our maiden voyage with him.  It is just nice to see my husband have something fun and be able to enjoy his day off.

Meet DOCK HOLLIDAY!  He is 50 years old this year.  I know that is crazy but he is in prity nice shape for 50 years old:)   We think he will be the perfect first boat.

Getting ready to shove off

On the GO:)

Love this lake it has beautiful views and is only like 20 min from us

See the happiness:)

Fishin wasn't the greatest.  All the fish would go up to the bait and then just swim off they just weren't hungry.  Did see a 24+ inch northern pike couple feet from our boat.  

Now he got spoiled wanting me to drive him around:)

Looking at all our options

Well it is looking more and more like they will be sending my husband up to North Dakota to work.  The work here is really slowing and you have to go where the work is I understand.  But if he goes it would only be him.  There isn't enough housing up there and if you can find it, it is sooooooooo outrageously priced.  He will live in man camps.  So we are trying to look at all our options.  Chances are he will go up there since the money is better it would be a good thing at least for a while.  But since we don't have any family or friends near me it makes us both nervous with my health and my arms still not healed yet.  So we are trying to decide on what to do with that.  We would like to either send me back to Oregon or possibly South Dakota again.  We can't afford the move right away but we are just trying to come up with solutions.  So we shall see what our life brings in the next couple of months.  Always Crazy but at least I have the best man in the world to share it with:)

Back from Arizona!

I am back after 11 days in Arizona with my grandparents and my aunt. It was a great visit and just nice to get away. I have gotten so stir crazy and have really been fighting depression with my injuries. We didn't do a lot of exciting things but just the time to chat and talk and play some games:) It did my spirit some good:) It was a beautiful time to go as all the cactus and such were starting to bloom. We did get a couple days in the 90's but it was nice weather. Below are just some random pics from my trip.

I got to spend easter in AZ with my grandma, papa, aunt and great aunt and uncle. It was nice to have family on a holiday but I missed my husband though. But my grandma got a hold of our chocolate bunnies of course:)

Me and Auntie took a small hike up south mountain early am before blistering hot. It was beautiful. I couldn't go very far with my knees and arms but it was so beautiful what little way I did get to go:)

Me and Auntie on our hike.

Then papa and grandma took me up on a little road trip to Montezuma castle and Montezumawell. The road trip was great going through so many different terrains on the way up.

Montezumas well with the little houses in the cliff. This water stays 76 degrees year round.

We were looking at this cactus that was about chest high and there in it was a little dove in her nest. Good mama didn't even move.

So many beautiful cactus blooming!

May your easter be blessed!!!!

Just wanted to wish everyone a VERY happy and blessed easter!!!! I am having a great time here in arizona with my grandparents and excited to be going to church tomorrow for easter. This holiday is very special:) It will be nice to be with family. But I will be missing my husband:( But I left him an easter basket and lots of food:)

Hilarious:)

I want these chocolate bunnies:)

New Hair do

I couldn't stand the icky brown I had going on anymore and wanted a change. Here is the results:)

Leaving for Arizona Tomorrow:)

So my husband got the flu last monday and was "sweet"enough to share(insert sarcasm there) We have both been miserable and had to go on Tamiflu and such. I am still not feeling the best but atleast I am not contagious just left over congestion and such. Hopefully the dry warm air in az will bake it out of me:) I am just excited to be getting out and seeing some special people:) It has been so hard being injured and not being able to do much and then not having anyone close by so this is much needed. I fly out at 6:45am so I have to leave my house at like 4am. That part not so excited about but don't care as long as I am going:)